Don't overreact

I don't know how should I begin but I think I'll start with a few examples.


Uhhh....I don't..really know you yet so uhmm sorry.

Uhmm, I have a boyfriend, sorry.

But we just met each other and all

Those are the replies I'd get when I happen to be oh-so-friendly and asks a girl out. The thing that bugs me is how suspicious they can be where else at the other end the guy is just trying to ask them to hang out.

I recalled when I came across this movie which had a decent score on IMDB and just had to watch it. I called out a girl whom I'd just recently met and was amazed by how she turned me down. A lot of you are going to be like 'duh obviously she'd say no' but frankly I don't see a problem with going out for a movie. It ISN'T a date, purpose is not to woo you whatsoever. It's just to have a good time watching a good movie together.

Just like how you would go out for a meal with another person, who goes out alone to eat anyways? Back to the point, whatever the occasion or the activity is, all we're trying to do at the end of the day is to have a good time.


" I don't really know you "

Do I look like a rapist? If I do you better tell me so I can get that fixed. I blame all the rapist in the world for giving us guys a bad image which makes people assume that we're up to something when we ask a girl out. There's no hidden agenda behind " Hey let's go grab a bite "

You just made it sound like: " yea you gonna get some tonight "

And when I hear this I've always held back from answering :" You don't know me? Then come out and know me. "



How do you expect to know a person without meeting them in person. Don't tell me you're going to know the person thoroughly by Facebook chatting? I don't think so. Some people would beg to differ but hey I'm entitled to my own opinion.

I appreciate the fact that you're being honest with me but on the other hand I do not like it when you cast suspicion over me. I guess girl's can't be blamed for some of them have suffered the consequences of meeting men with ill intentions. ( I feel sorry too )

Secondly, I blame Facebook for providing a platform for prejudgement and assumptions.




Scenario 1 : Men with 2 girls

Translation : Player with 2 dumb bitches




Scenario 2 : Girl bearing cleavage

Translation : She's a slut

Pictures were not meant to violate any copyright laws.

I don't believe there wasn't a time when profile stalking scouting has stopped you from befriending, getting closer to a person or even casting suspicion over them. Correct me if that has never been the case.

Pictures alone would've done the damage to the unsuspecting person. Makes me think that once I made it out of medical school, I would have to privatise my page so that my patients would not for whatever reason they may have, lose confidence in me.

So anyway, all I'm saying is that sometimes not every guy out there is trying to knock you up. There are people who genuinely want to be friends with you whether you believe it or not. And of course, there's me lah ( troll :D )